Can You Have A Boyfriend When You’re A Sugar Baby?
Should You Have A Boyfriend If You Are A Sugar Baby?
You may be deep into the world of sugar daddy dating, you may have a rich man that wines and dines and romances you until you are dizzy and buys you trinkets that make jaws drop, but, does that mean that you can’t have a boyfriend? Your sugar daddy isn’t your boyfriend. He may be good to you, you may like, or even love him to some degree, but, is having a man who doesn’t fund your lifestyle and who cuddles you late at night completely off the table? The answer is no. You are a woman who can absolutely have it all, and if you want a boyfriend in addition to your sugar daddy, then you can totally swing it….if you consider a few things and follow our tips to pulling it off.
He Needs To Know Right Away
This may seem very obvious to some people who are reading, but sometimes we can overlook the obvious. If you are single, have a sugar daddy and are interested in getting a boyfriend as well, then, by all means, feel free to go for it. However, you really, really need to be honest from the jump. This may be hard for some people, because they fear judgement, but if the person you are seeing is open-minded, and will to at least try dating someone with your lifestyle, then you’ll be on easy street. If you have a sugar daddy, then that means you can catch a man and reel him in, so, you’re probably hot and have a lot to offer anyone. If a guy can’t see that, then don’t bother.
If You Already Have A Boyfriend, You Do Need To Tell Him Too
This can be pretty tricky territory, in all honesty. If you’ve been in a monogamous relationship for a long time, then becoming a sugar baby will not be an easy subject to broach. However, you really can’t keep it a secret-at least not for long. No matter how hard it might be, you do need to let the cat out of the bag. It might seem difficult, but, it’ll be way, way more difficult to deal with if you hide it and he happens to find out. If you are in an open relationship, things will be easier to explain. Also, if you have any financial issues, especially big ones, then taking on a sugar daddy will possibly be an easier pill to swallow for your main man.
You Need To Watch Out For Jealousy
Sometimes you can’t always tell how jealous a person is until they are in a situation that really brings it out of them. Especially when you are first seeing someone, you will have no idea how deep a person’s insecurities run and how viciously they will manifest themselves. As a sugar baby dating someone, you need to be extra keen and really, really watch out for that type of behavior from the very beginning. Even if you have been honest and the person claims to be alright with everything, it’s best to hold them at arms length for a while to see exactly how they react to being with someone who has your lifestyle. Certain warning signs you should look for include making long-term plans very early on, getting annoyed or going silent when you mention any other men in your life, refusing to talk about your life as a sugar baby, or a general sense of possessiveness. All this can come across in a very subtle way, but if you are on the alert and paying attention, then you can spot these cues.Someone who exhibits this sort of behavior is someone who will give you trouble later on down the road in terms of drama, which will really cramp your style. Avoid these types of people at all costs.
He Needs To Have His Own Money
He obviously isn’t going to be rich like your sugar daddy, which is maybe why you are interested in him in the first place-it is nice to slum it and hang with a hot guy who has nothing much to give you but love. However, he should not be flat ass broke. If he is, you shouldn’t date him. He needs to have some money, and be obviously on a path in life that will make him more. If he seems broke AND lazy, then he will likely leech off of you for funds.